Happiness

Search of happiness...hard to describe. Everybody has a different definition of happiness. Some body is searching happiness in materialistic thing, some person have in peace, some in love and some in happiness of others...

All are happy by their on way. But to feel that happiness, its necessary to feel sadness. Other wise u will not feel the difference of emotions in both the condition. So don't curse ur self for ur work because of which u are facing sadness. because it will lead you to feel that wonderful feeling which no body can feel easily. love your self, and respect your self. you are lucky that u are alive to feel these emotions. love these emotions. never run from these emotions . either of sadness or happiness because these are the only way which are keeping you to be a human. everybody like happiness but hate sadness and they run from the situation.

But if u will face the situation then u will never having a regret of loosing something. At least u tried for everything . Rest is called your destiny, with that u can't fight.

Happiness is better shared when it is in this content .Happiness is not a gauged on how good someone’s life is, but rather how they perceive it. This shows the good of life and how luck effects the out come of it.

so be happy happy in all situation because all situation has their own importance in our life.

Smile always...it doesn't charge tax also... :)

Make it Happen

It’s good to be happy yourself but also be sensitive to feeling of others. If any friend is disappointed from anything, offer a supportive shoulder and help them see the brighter side and maintain a positive outlook. Success is something which leads you to the world of pride and you forget everybody there.

Live your life, learn how to get success but maintain your relation also with that. Because you always need someone to share ur success otherwise it’s no use of that success. It will just be like a chocolate, u can keep that but cant taste.

lovely words

is jindagee ke, din kitane kam hai 
  
kitanee hain khushiyaa, aaur kitane gam hai 
  
lag jaa gale se, rut hain suhaanee 
  
yaa hain mohabbat  yaa hain jawaanee

Effortless Process

Once Buddha was travelling with a few of his followers. While they were passing a lake, Buddha told one of his disciples, "I am thirsty. Do get me some water from the lake."

The disciple walked up to the lake. At that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy and turbid. The disciple thought, "How can I give this muddy water to Buddha to drink?"

So he came back and told Buddha, "The water in there is very muddy. I don't think it is fit to drink."

After about half an hour, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back to the lake.

The disciple went back, and found that the water was still muddy. He returned and informed Buddha about the same.

After sometime, again Buddha asked the same disciple to go back.

This time, the disciple found the mud had settled down, and the water was clean and clear. So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Buddha.

Buddha looked at the water, and then he looked up at the disciple and said," See what you did to make the water clean. You let it be, and the mud settled down on its own -- and you have clear water.

Your mind is like that too ! When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. You don't have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless."

Having 'Peace of Mind' is not a strenuous job; it is an effortless process!

A dissimilar Relation

People use to say that we come in this world alone but it’s not true. We came in this world with many relations. And some relation we make in this world by us own. A relation that has no definition, that is very precious, that becomes some body’s life.

We know mother and child relations has no comparison, but why so. Have you ever thought? Because a mother is a first contact of that child in this world and she keeps that baby for nine with herself. She never share any problem with anybody related to that child. She is always there for him so that he can make mistakes and come back to her, and when he is low she can be his strength. A mother never says anything but with the silence she handles all the problem and sadness of his boy. A girl become a mother by giving birth to that child and then she is so attached to that baby that she cannot stand with any problem of that child. But there are so many mothers who have not given birth to any boy. But then also she is able to feel all his emotions and all his pain. She can actually feel that pain without being his mother.

I know, it’s very awkward for you all to know about that girl who has become a mother without giving birth to anybody. But she has same feeling which a mother use to have. And it becomes problematic for her. She has expectation from that child. And now she is just like a teacher for that boy. As a student cannot see her teacher in wrong things, that boy cannot see her who is more like a friend to him, in wrongs thing. And it happens with that boy that he becomes infuriate with that girl.

Just think about that girl who gave valuable sentiments to that boy without any expectation. Will she be able to be apart from that boy. But one day just for that boy only she has to move away with tears in her eyes. With the broken heart and sorrow.

And now think about that boy. He lost all of his strength but he is not aware of this feeling coz of todays culture and needs of life.

i wish that boy can always be with her…

No one Knows!!!

No one knows what the other goes through!

No one knows what is behind our sad eyes, and broken smiles. No one knows the thoughts that curse our minds, and walk on our fragile souls.No one knows me well enough to see beyond my flesh! They cant see my shattered mind, or my broken heart! They cant read my mental resume, or see how life has taken me so far from where I have been. How confusing to think that no one knows how to creep into your head, long enough to hear your deepest thoughts. No one knows me, or the road I have been down! So if when we meet, all you see is my pale skin, and my dark eyes.

So

Don't stand before me in judgment! Just remember...You don't know me!